Ungrateful

Don't be nice to ungrateful people..-Xiaxue

You know that people always say that life is hard, cruel, unfair, but we should anyhow be nice to everyone.. Every religion taught that, every one knows that it is the right thing to do, common sense, be moral.. But still crimes committed every single day.. Violence occurred every single day..

Been on an emotion roller coaster lately.. Relationship ends and people get hurt. You can be nice to people, but people tends to abuse kindness.. People get used to your kindness that they want more.. They crave for it, and they make use of you.. And one day when you fight back, they turn their backs on you, they bite you, they despise you, they laugh at you, they make fun of you.. In the end, you are the one who left heart broken, and suffering.. You got to collect every pieces that is left behind, and they will leave you.

Xiaxue once tweeted, "Don't be nice to ungrateful people." I gotta say that I agree with her. You be nice to people but they are not thankful for that, they are ungrateful, thinking that it is the right thing to do. They don't care about your feeling, will not put themselves in your shoes, as long as they get what they want.

Always remember, people are selfish. In the end, it is to their interest, they take the decisions. Some people could just be so realistic that they don't care about feelings. Be it family, or friends, relationship is a privilege, you don't just get it, you have to earn it. 

A close friend of mine once reminded me, "You gotta choose your friend." I said, "I did." She said, "No, you didn't." Now it got me thinking and realized, yes, I didn't. It's hard to find a decent friend nowadays, those who really stick to you and will not take you for granted, those who will remind you when you have made mistake, those who still love you no matter what. Same goes for family.

Sometimes it is easier to be ignorant. Do not need to care whatever happen to other people. Just think of ourselves, our own things and dreams, protect our own feelings. But is it what this world has turned too? A bunch of selfish ignorant people? Who would kill in order to be on top? Who would steal in order to satisfied their greed? Who would ignore feelings to gain their benefits?

The more I see of the world, the more I am dissatisfied with it; and everyday confirms my belief of the inconsistency of all human characters and of the little dependence that can be placed on the appearance of merit or sense..-Elizabeth, Pride and Prejudice

A reflection, for me, for you, my friend, and for all of us. Let's make all things right again..